We do not have to allow the opinion of others to become our own yardstick.
@omojuwa wrote: “I told a Nigerian lady yesterday I would not cheat on my wife. She refused to believe/agree. Have Nigerian women come to accept cheating?”
The answer is yes, I have observed this among young ladies, majority of them see it as a norm for a man to cheat on them but our society frowns at it when a woman engages in such. How you view yourself determines the picture people will have about you.
@PaulJide said ‘Your receive system is a function of your belief system’. If you BELIEVE your husband or wife will cheat on you, there is a high possibility it will happen in your marriage since you view it as a norm.
And remember that Like attracts Like, why would women allow such if not that some of them do cheat too and have the belief that they can’t curb themselves even after marriage.
How, why and when did women start developing this kind of #LimitingBeliefs
‘Why should you accept it as a norm, why should you settle for less?’
Dear ladies and gentlemen, you don’t have to accept every picture the society paints for you. Even a course mate of mine said ‘it will not be possible for a man to keep to his wife alone during marriage’. I felt like sad and broken.
According to Omojuwa he said that he told the lady told that he will be faithful to his wife as long as they are married and I also reiterated the same thing to this my course mate, that I will be faithful to my husband.
We need to be “temperate in all things if we want to finish well’. God placed sexual desires in us and He also gave the ability to control it. There’s no room for pre marital sex or extra- marital affairs. Remember your body is ‘the Holy temple of God’.Photo Credit: Maria C Dawson|Stupefied via Compfight cc
What kind of examples, values and legacy do we want to lay down for our children and people that look up to us. We need to consciously build a great legacy, starting now, today and everyday…
It is VERY POSSIBLE to stay chaste before marriage and remain faithful to your partner while married. It is a matter of self control and the values we hold.
We need to be “temperate in all things if we want to finish well’. God placed sexual desires in us and He also gave the ability to control it. There’s no room for pre marital sex or extra- marital affairs.
I am an advocate of purity. StayPure, StayChaste, Avoid limiting Beliefs.